He's Just Not That Into You-- based on a popular episode of Sex and the City --is tough love advice for otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough , so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. It's the best relationship advice you'll ever receive. For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. He's afraid to get hurt again. Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Maybe he ...
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He's Just Not That Into You-- based on a popular episode of Sex and the City --is tough love advice for otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough , so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. It's the best relationship advice you'll ever receive. For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. He's afraid to get hurt again. Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Maybe he's intimidated by me. He just got out of a relationship. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that--despite good intentions--you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. The truth may be, He's just not that into you. Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, "You're not the one." But their actions absolutely show how they feel. Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean, "I'm in love with you and want to be with you." He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman's night table. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out," consider the glorious thought that maybe, He's just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is. This NEWLY EXPANDED EDITION includes: a new foreword from Greg Behrendt; a new chapter--providing an honest look at the stages of life after He's Just Not That Into You , according to Liz, including exaltation, loneliness, temptation, and balance; and Greg and Liz address the most frequently asked reader questions.
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I am 69 and a friend of mine gave the original copy to me to give one of my students. I decided to read it for fun first. I couldn't put it down. It made me laugh a lot and opened my eyes. I truly wish this had been available 50 years ago. It could save girls and women so much grief. More importantly, it gives them tools for having a good relationship. It is written with great humor and a lot of truth.
I ordered an extra copy just to lend to my friends and students.
ladychat
Oct 15, 2009
Save your emotional life
This book is great for those young and old alike who are in the dating world. Listen to the words and make yourself feel a sense of freedom!
chattycheer
Nov 25, 2007
Well i really liked this book, it kind of follows some of the same rules and concepts for dating from the book "The Rules" ( which is like the best dating advice book ever). This book was funny and very easy to read.
bonzo
Nov 25, 2007
not just for "She"s
This book was wonderful! Funny, insightful, and applicable. I found myself noticing, "oh my god, I do that!" And not only for the side making excuses, but for the side they're being made for. Not only can this book help you realize, "hey, maybe he/she isnt that into me," it can also help you realize, "Oh, I guess I am not that into him/her." And although the book is written in a hetero-normative voice, many many of the ideas can apply to homosexual relationships as well. It is a very easy and quick read. Even if it is not "life changing," it is a book worthy of an afternoon and some afterthought.
OlderandWiser
Jun 28, 2007
Reality Check
For most of my early life, I constantly threw myself at boys & men who used, dumped & humiliated me. The worst part was I asked for it! Greg & Liz have performed a public service writing these books about the way men behave in relationships. Written in plain language & with interesting anecdotes throughout, this book can change your attitude & free you from crippling delusions. Stop wasting your precious time on guys broadcasting a low level of interest in you, Ladies! Great book, highly recommended!
