I bought this book by "mistake" shortly after the death of my 3rd. son. I was in a very dark place and really questioning God. This book opened my eyes to the fact that God is truly in control and He allows things in our lives we may never understand. My boys were born again by Jesus' love and are safe with Him. I've given this book to many people who have struggles. Not just with death but every kind of loss. I am very thankful for the "mistake" I made that day in 1987 when I bought this book.