We begin to identify what fear is from when we are little, because it is precisely our parents, relatives and friends who instill in us this supposed fear of something or someone, without realizing that what they are achieving is paralyzing us in our growth process during the path that we must travel in the course of our lives. They tell us, "if you don't fall asleep, the coconut will come and take you away", "if you don't behave well, I'm going to tell your mom/dad", etc. These are just two examples, there are others that ...
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We begin to identify what fear is from when we are little, because it is precisely our parents, relatives and friends who instill in us this supposed fear of something or someone, without realizing that what they are achieving is paralyzing us in our growth process during the path that we must travel in the course of our lives. They tell us, "if you don't fall asleep, the coconut will come and take you away", "if you don't behave well, I'm going to tell your mom/dad", etc. These are just two examples, there are others that I do not write here because the reality is that I am embarrassed just by mentioning them. The capacity of the human being is much greater when it comes to wanting to produce fear, than not doing it, since unfortunately, it is easier to do it, so instead of sitting down, taking your time and explaining the why of things, they forget something very important, and that is that the brain controls voluntary movements, speech, intelligence, memory, emotions and processes the information it receives through the senses, the cerebellum processes information from other areas of the brain, spinal cord and sensory receptors, in order to indicate the exact time to perform coordinated and smooth movements of the skeletal muscle system. If you want to do something, do it! As long as you are sure that it is the right thing, because if you don't do it, you will live with the doubt of knowing if it would have worked or not, and if you decide to do it and it goes well for you then celebrate, but if it goes wrong, don't get discouraged. Look at what you failed at, because it will make you stronger and try again, no matter how many times you try, from each one you will always learn something new that will help you in your knowledge and personal and professional growth.
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