When a loved one falls into the dark depths of addiction, it's easy to feel overwhelmed, helpless, and desperate to do anything to save them. However, no matter how much you try to pull them out, the truth is that they must reach their rock bottom and choose to break free from the tight grip of addiction. It is the same concept as a person down in a hole, and a rope is thrown for them to climb out, but they don't take the rope to escape their dilemma. This is where the concept of neuroplasticity comes into play. Through ...
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When a loved one falls into the dark depths of addiction, it's easy to feel overwhelmed, helpless, and desperate to do anything to save them. However, no matter how much you try to pull them out, the truth is that they must reach their rock bottom and choose to break free from the tight grip of addiction. It is the same concept as a person down in a hole, and a rope is thrown for them to climb out, but they don't take the rope to escape their dilemma. This is where the concept of neuroplasticity comes into play. Through this all-encompassing method, we can rewire the brain and restructure neural networks to function differently. It's like a reset button for the brain, allowing for a fresh start. Based on actual events, the book portrays the raw and uphill battle of addiction. It's important to remember not to judge, lecture, guilt-trip, bribe, or label the person as an "addict." These actions do more harm than good and only push the person further away. In the story, the characters of Gabriel and Valerie may be fictional, but their struggles are real and based on actual people. They can't overcome their addictions until they realize that they can't do it alone. Valerie is like Alice in Wonderland, trapped in Kensington, falling down the rabbit hole of addiction. Gabriel is trapped in his own mind, believing that he could have prevented the tragic murder-suicide of his parents and sister. But together, they hold the key to freeing each other from the grasp of addiction and rumination. As the story unfolds, we see how Gabriel and Valerie's paths cross, forming a bond that helps them both on their journey to recovery. Through their struggles, we witness the power of human connection and the importance of understanding and empathy. It's a reminder that addiction is not a personal choice but a disease that requires compassion and support to overcome. As their stories end, we see that with the right help and determination, they can break free from the darkness and start a new chapter in their lives. The message is clear: never give up on your loved ones and lose hope.
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