Do you ever feel that you are the sole reason your current relationship has sustained until now? Do you ever feel as if you are the only thing keeping your partner from self-destructing due to illness or addiction? Do you ever feel like your partner would be unable to survive without you to care for them and their mental or physical needs? Do you ever feel that as a result of your relationship with your partner, you yourself have become negatively addicted to harmful substances such as cigarettes, alcohol, cannabis, ...
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Do you ever feel that you are the sole reason your current relationship has sustained until now? Do you ever feel as if you are the only thing keeping your partner from self-destructing due to illness or addiction? Do you ever feel like your partner would be unable to survive without you to care for them and their mental or physical needs? Do you ever feel that as a result of your relationship with your partner, you yourself have become negatively addicted to harmful substances such as cigarettes, alcohol, cannabis, cocaine, drugs, or sleeping pills; or to harmful behaviors such as torture, masochism, poverty, hoarding or isolation? If any of these rings true in regards to your current or past relationships, then perhaps the root of your struggles lies within the flawed manner in which you view your relationships. That is, perhaps, your relationship is a co-dependent relationship. Many of us today feel that helping our loved one get their next high, their next drink, or a pack of smokes is a small price to pay in return for their company. Rather than stepping up and repairing the damage this behavior causes, we continue to feed the behavior...in the name of love. In the process, we also end up realizing that our dependency is so strong that it is impossible to breathe without the other. Often, even after the partner gets professional help the co-dependent is left to pick up the pieces for the rest of his/her life. If you find yourself in such a relationship, the answers you see lie in the pages of this book. Here you'll find tools to resolve issues of co-dependency for both you and your partner. This book aims to provide professional help for the co-dependents through real-life examples, incidents, techniques, resolutions and solutions to heal yourselves and your relationships properly . I myself have been a partner in co-dependent relationships and have struggled through misguided attempts to resolve my relationship problems. It is because of this that I have attempted to put together this book to guide you down the healing path. I hope that through my experiences to share the tools needed to escape the co-dependent cycle and move beyond the meaningless relationships of the past where the tendency to enable our partners destructive habits places us in a position of emotional servitude. I wish each and every one of you to find the love for yourself that allows you to become a healthy loving partner in the future.
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