RUN don't walk to read this TODAY!!!
I cannot say enough good things about this book, or how well it can help you identify and ELIMINATE harmful patterns in your romantic life. If you're a person with any kind of lingering trauma from a past relationship, or if you're worried that your childhood could be affecting your love life, or even if you just don't want to end up with a jerk, you NEED this book. It gives such practical and concrete steps to help you set yourself up to succeed and overcome the risks of being blindsided. This book has helped me heal, given me new hope and confidence in myself, and made sense out of things in my life I never would have identified otherwise. I now buy up copies of this book to give to my single friends. It's a game changer for finding a healthy relationship, and it will change your life.